Friday, 9 October 2015



Why do we still need gender roles? 

Gender roles appeared many years ago. While men were hunting, women were looking after babies, cooking, etc. Nowadays, we can often notice that some duties of men and women have mixed. For example men stay at home and do housework but women work and provide their families. But we still need gender roles! 

We still need this separation, because for example women are't as physically strong as men are, so they can't properly do jobs such as loader, builder or fire keeper. Also gender roles genetically laid in each person and we can't destroy theese roles because they keep our habitual lifestyle. 

In conclusion i'd like to say, that we need gender roles, because this separation has always existed and we don't need to change our habbits,

Thursday, 8 October 2015

Real gentalmen are a thing at the past.

Today, the problem of decreasing the number of gentalmen is seemed to be worldwide.

To  my mind most men have a tendency not to be a gentalmen. Gentalmen haven't got demand in our society, it is caused by women's bahaviour. Particularly in last centyry, women are tend to be independent: to earn their's living not to have children and eventually not to get married. This philosophy has broken rules of ordinary relationships between man and woman, so that men were made to change the way of behaving too.
On the other hand, some people think, that a kind of men called gentalmen exists nowadays. They say about such people as about the only right type of male human. They claim, that moral qualities of these people and attitude to women are most proper.
I don't agree with this opinion, because world is changing and people are no exception. As far as i am concerned, it is not a mistake to change yourself in consern with other members of the society, because it is natural process.
To sum up, i would like to say, that our life is not permanent, so that relationships and rules between people change and disappearing of such kind of people as gentalmen is only a result of it.

Real gentlemen are a thing of the past

Nowadays during reading books about the past we can notice that norms of behavior had changed. From my point of view spiritual values had changed too.

More than 100 years ago honor was the most important thing for men (and for women too). Boys were brought up knowing that it was necessary to know and keep the rules of decency. Gentlemen had to follow unwritten rules to keep their honor and the honor of their families. Men were ready to do everything that would help the ladies, their friends and maybe sometimes even unknown person.

Now most of these values had changed. The world “honor” had lost its meaning. Many people use it without putting any sense in it. Nowadays most men live just they want. They are coming in their own way, regardless of the opinion of others. Such people rarely care about surroundings and their opinions. I do not want to say every one doing like this! Of course, there are men which take care of others and follow the rules of decency. Society calls them “polite” just because the world “gentlemen” is out of date. But unfortunately, men like that are becoming less and less.

That is the reason I think that real gentlemen are becoming a thing of the past.

Real gentlemen are the thing of the past?


Real Gentlemen are thing of the past?

Nowadays there are a lot of people who think that there are no more real gentlemen. Most of these people (who thinks so) are women. Maybe this opinion is true, but I think in the different way.
From my point of view, every man on the planet is different from another one. The character, appearance and the mood are different. Every man wants to be special and I think that it is absolutely normal. Firstly, everything depends on the person. Secondly, what does the word 'gentlemen' means? A lot of people even don't know. As far as I know, in the past the man could be a gentleman in the only one way: he had to be from the royal family. But now, it means the person who follows safety rules, loves women, helps them.
I'm sure that every man wants people to respect him because of his ruels and beliefs. But if you really want to be a respectable person, you have to respect others.
In conclusion, I would like to say that everybody can be a gentleman and this is not very difficult.


Written by Dolgopolov Pavel

Real gentlemen are the thing of the past



Nowadays we can everywhere hear this really popular phrase from lone women or weak men to acquit their bad private situation or sneaky deed. Usually people use this statement to describe moral dignities of the past. I offer to think about this determination and find out if it is true or false.

First of all, it goes without saying that many priciples since, for example, 19 century, changed a lot and, to be honesty, now there aren't any strict rules and fear of breaking them. Men used to be really ideal: gentlemen according to women's opinion used to be physically strong, used to be very intelligent and have high mental principles. So, we have an example of ideal man like Zarathustra. But I am convinced that it is impossible to be without any drawbacks and “the real gentleman” means example which every man has to follow. Nowadays there are real gentlemen too, but there is no cult about these words. Moreover we don't have to forget about ladies and strict tenets they should follow.

In conclusion I'd like to say again that it is the statement is absolutely incorrect and we don't have to care about it. It is impossible to be an ideal person, but, obviously, we should have moral limits and follow them.


Real Gentlmen are a thing of the past

Nowadays there is an opinion that men are not gentlmen any more. Most probably this opinion has arised because of women. They are always annoyed with men but I am not such girl who doesn't appreciate men. I have a different point of view and want to share it.
In my opinion every man is different from another because of breeding, character and possibilities that's why we can't say confidently that present-day men are not gentlmen. Furthermore, everything dependens on person. If man wants to be a gentlman, he will be such one. However, there are men who are no gentlmen because they don't know that the courtesy is the badge of a gentlmen. I am sure that there is no woman on the Earth who won't be lovely to be taken care of because all of us really need a gentlman. It goes without saying that it is not very difficult to be a gentlmen but every single man chooses for himself who he would like to be. Man can't be born a gentlman, he only can achieve it.
In conclusion, I would like to say that there are a lot of pros and cons. Many men, many minds.

Friday, 2 October 2015

Ladies first?

Ladies first?

A long time ago when there were knights in shining armour, men used to appreciate and respect women. For example, they used to fight in honour of their ladies, they used to carry about them.
Now our living has changed dramatically. Today women got enough rights and seem to be equal to men. Maybe that’s why majority of men forgot that they should take care of women because they (women) are actually weaker.
However, despite the equality, most people believe that hitting a woman make man no respect. Women can’t hit back. Few centuries ago, on the contrary, a husband hitting his wife was a normal thing!
Nevertheless, nowadays boys can easily insult girls or treat them badly. Moreover, girls are used to being more sensitive than boys, so they hurt more. As for me, this is no good. Boys and men should think about girls’ feelings.
Frankly, men are better than women in the majority of activities and jobs. They were borned to be stronger. They are to protect women.

Personally, I believe that women have harder lives. Therefore, men should treat them more indulgently and take more care of them.

Thursday, 1 October 2015

                                                  

                                               Why we still need gender roles?


    Nowadays, in our society we have many prejudices and stereotypes about gender roles. Such as "gender roles are definitely important for the society" or "gender roles establish our identity". I would like to discuss the pros and cons of gender roles being important. 
    Firstly, i'd like to talk about pros. Many people think that 'it's in our nature'; that on the one hand the major part of women were born with the nature of being caring, domestic etc, and on the other hand the majority of men are more used to protecting, providing.  Also there's an opinion that gender roles are very important for the society. Without them there'll be chaos. 
   Secondly, i'd like to say about cons. Gender roles are outdated.  They aren't important for the society (68% of todays families aren't traditional). Every one is a very complex and contradictory, we don't even understand how does our body(especially brain) works, so how could we state how each person should be. 
    To conclusion, i'd like to add that in my opinion gender roles are absolutely unimportant nor to the society neither to humans nature at all.